“Men Who Marry but Stay in Their Mother’s House With Their Wives Are Wicked” – Counsellor Lutterodt
Counsellor Lutterodt warns men that living in their mother’s home after marriage undermines responsibility and family stability.
- Lutterodt criticizes men who marry but continue living in their mothers’ homes, calling it wickedness
- He emphasizes the importance of shelter, financial preparedness, and independence in marriage
- Lutterodt supports simple, affordable weddings over extravagance, echoing Archbishop Duncan-Williams’ advice
Vocal Ghanaian marriage counsellor, Cyril George Carstensen Lutterodt, has issued a stern warning to men regarding financial preparedness and independence in marriage.
Speaking on the Ghana Se Sen Morning Show with Kwame Tanko on Lawson TV/Radio on Friday, January 23, 2026, Lutterodt condemned men who marry but continue living in their mothers’ homes.
According to Lutterodt, a man’s ability to provide shelter and financial support is fundamental to a successful marriage.
He described men who fail to establish an independent home for their spouse as being “wicked” and irresponsible.
“A man who marries a woman and continues to live in his mother’s house is a wicked man. Marriage is about creating a new home and taking responsibility for your family,” Lutterodt stated.
The counsellor explained that while women may prioritize physical attributes such as beauty, men require stability, shelter, and financial readiness before taking the marital step.
He emphasized that extravagant weddings are unnecessary and that young men, especially those still serving in national service, are often not yet equipped for marriage.
Lutterodt also echoed Archbishop Nicholas Duncan-Williams’ advice that couples should avoid overspending on weddings, including costly venues, large guest lists, and long bridal trains.
He recommended simple, affordable ceremonies that allow couples to save and invest in their future together.
“Marriage itself is not expensive; what is expensive is maintaining it. Couples should only commit to what they can afford and focus on building a stable home,” Lutterodt advised.
He urged young men and women in Ghana to prioritize financial independence, responsibility, and mutual support over societal expectations of lavish weddings.
